Ultimate Boyfriend/ Girlfriend List

At times even Jesus Himself wouldn’t fit the criteria!

Ephesians 5:1-7

Reference: …and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God. (Ephesians 5:2 NIV)

Explore: It’s interesting talking to young, single people who are exploring dating. Often, particularly the girls, will have a list of what they would want their future partner to be like.

Sense of humour
Loves kids

Depending on who the single is and what their interests are, you could find 5-10 more attributes or interests added to their list.

It’s not terrible to have some idea about what you would look for in a partner, but at times even Jesus Himself wouldn’t fit the criteria!!

Application: More times than not, the Bible doesn’t give instruction on what we should look for in others, but how we should act ourselves.

The love advice given in scripture is to be like Christ – love sacrificially. It’s not about what our partner can do for us, but how we can give to our partner.

With a list of demands on what we look for in others, do we ever encourage our single friends to write a list of what we should be for others?

Love is an important ingredient in any relationship. It’s good for us to turn the expectation around and instead of insisting on what others can do for us, Biblical love is all about what we can do for others.

Prayer: Lord, You were the ultimate example of love. May we learn each and every day to put off our selfish desires and to love others with the love of Christ. Amen.

How can you love others today?

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This article was written by Linda Bailey

Linda started theological studies in 1999 in Australia. After working for ten years in various church ministries, she now works as the breakfast producer at 89.9 LightFM - the Christian radio station in Melbourne, Australia. She writes blogs every day about passages she is currently reading in the Bible. Follow her on Google Plus +Linda Bailey or Facebook by clicking the like button on the right of this page.